The Art of Splitting Up
Atlantic articles on divorce, breakups, and what comes next
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Just as the institution of marriage has evolved, so has the institution of divorce. In a review of Haley Mlotek’s new divorce memoir, the writer Rachel Vorona Cote traces the introduction of “no fault “ divorce—a split without the designation of blame. California was the first state to legalize such divorces, in 1969; New York, in 2010, was the last.
Sometimes, splitting up involves placing or sharing blame. Other times, it’s more simply about making a new choice for where you want life to take you—but simplicity doesn’t mean ease. Today’s reading list rounds up Atlantic stories on saying goodbye.
On Splitting Up
Dear Therapist: I Don’t Know How to Help My Best Friend Through Her Divorce
By Lori Gottlieb
By Honor Jones
By Olga Khazan
Still Curious?
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A divorce memoir with no lessons: Haley Mlotek’s new book provides neither catharsis nor remedies for heartache, but rather a tender exploration of human intimacy, Cote writes.
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Breakups always hurt, but you can shorten the suffering: Three steps to get over your ex
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